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Monday, January 27, 2025 · 31 min

Relationships God's Way - Noah Herrin

Noah Herrin preaches from Matthew 5 (the Sermon on the Mount), focusing on Jesus' teaching about divorce and the surrounding issues of marriage and sexual sin. He first defines a biblical view of marriage - a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman meant to display Christ's covenant love - and warns against idolizing marriage as a source of personal fulfillment. He emphasizes that small moments of lust destroy love and urges believers to ‘flee’ sexual temptation and put practical safeguards in place. Herrin explains when divorce is permitted in Scripture (sexual immorality, abandonment by an unbelieving spouse, and abuse as a form of abandonment), calls sinners to repentance, and closes by reminding listeners that in Christ there is no condemnation and God gets to name you, not the devil.

“Anyone who divorces his wife except for sexual immorality makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” · Noah Herrin

Take it with you

Practical responses: prioritize your relationship with Christ (singleness should be used for kingdom work, not idolized), and take concrete steps to flee sexual temptation (unfollow triggers, charge devices elsewhere, set accountability). If your marriage is struggling seek counseling and pursue reconciliation where possible; where Scripture allows (sexual immorality, abandonment, abuse) there is a biblical way forward. If you've already sinned, repentance - turning from the sin and toward Christ - is the required next step.

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Key Scriptures

Matthew 5:31-37Jesus' teaching about divorce (anyone who divorces his wife except for sexual immorality makes her the victim of adultery) and oaths (simply say yes or no).
Romans 8:1Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Ephesians 5:25Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (used to explain marriage reflecting Christ's love).
1 Corinthians 7:8To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to stay unmarried (Paul's positive view of singleness cited).

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